Why Is it So Difficult to Trust My Intuition?
Jul 01, 2024![](https://kajabi-storefronts-production.kajabi-cdn.com/kajabi-storefronts-production/file-uploads/blogs/2147497255/images/cfd273c-e03f-a7e4-3f-1f01f6a0ac_IMG_0683.jpg)
I was voice-noting a friend last week about how to listen to your intuition ๐ฎ when dating. We were contemplating the delicate balance between knowing when a person is right for you and also being open to different ideas of what you are looking for in a partner. For example, I had gone on a date and this person had really done everything right for a perfect date โค๏ธ. On paper, it seemed like our families were very similar, we shared a lot of common preferences and interests and overall it was an enjoyable experience. However, when I took time to reflect on the date after, I realized I didn't feel a deep connection with this person. I knew, in my heart, it wasn't my person ๐๐ป. So in situations like this, do you give the person a second chance? I mean, if things went well enough, maybe, I am the one being too picky. Or, do I listen to this voice inside of me ๐ that says- it is not for me?
This precious dance of distinguishing between your ego mind and your intuition is not just applied to dating. It applies to every decision we make in life. Do I take this job because on paper it is a good opportunity? Or do I listen to my body that seems to be telling me 'no, this isn't right for you' โจ. Do you sign off on the lease of the apt that seems to fit for you? Or, do you listen to the voice that says 'just wait, there is something even better coming your way?" ๐คจ
To the average person, when you explain your predicament, they will look at you like you have three eyes ๐ต๐ซ๐คญ. You didn't take that opportunity because it didn't feel right?! Are you nuts?! But the funny thing about intuition is that, that is always how it ends up being. On paper and logistically, sometimes saying yes makes all the sense. However, when you tune into your body and listen closer, it says the exact opposite ๐ง. You may not have any evidence to support why it is a 'no' just yet, you just have to take a leap of faith and trust yourself. And when you do, wow, are the returns incredibly abundant ๐ฆโจ.
The good news is that the more you flex your intuitive muscle, the easier it becomes ๐ช๐ป. You align more and more with the synchronicities of the universe, are very aware of signs from your guides and can see clearly when something is right for you or not. Are you deeply wanting to strengthen your intuitive gifts?
Join my Masterclass on How to Activate Your Intuition' ๐ฎ๐! It is LIVE Wednesday, July 9th at 6p pst. See you then!
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Angelica Rose
The Divine Feminine Healer